This is my third Father's Day without Amanda and I'm going to be okay today. They don't get easy, but they do get a little easier each year. I know that's not the case for some. I know that everyone is different, and everyone grieves differently, but I can tell you why it's getting easier for me. In fact, it's the same reason I have made it this far, and the same reason I'll be able to keep going until Jesus calls me home.
"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." ~ Psalm 34:18
Jesus is the reason.
His promise that I will see Amanda again, and that I will spend eternity with her in a place with no tears, no suffering, no pain, and no more death, is the reason I can keep going. One day, I'll join her in Heaven and wrap my arms around her again. That's what keeps me going.
Just last night I learned that a dear friend, a young man who graduated from Vilonia High School, who works with the youth group at our church, and who one day took Amanda on a date, lost his mother in a car wreck, and may well lose his father from the same accident. Another friend called to give me the news. She also told me what this young man said when he heard the news. "My parents both know the Lord."
Their faith offers him the same promise Amanda's faith offered me, that we will one day see them again. Even in the face of such tragic news, in the immediate aftermath, he was able to lean on that promise to find peace. If you don't have that peace, if you don't know Jesus, the Heavenly Father, you can. You can have that same peace, receive that same promise that gives us strength in impossible circumstances.
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I wish all a happy Father's Day and hope you all enjoy the peace that comes from knowing the Heavenly Father.
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